The best date-night bars in San Francisco
Dim, unhurried, and easy to talk in — the rooms built for a good first date or a long second one. Candlelight over chaos, conversation over a packed dance floor.
170 spots across San Francisco.
Mission
Buddy
a trendy, vintage-chic Mission wine bar, innovative snacks and small plates
Ruth's at Treat Street Cocktails
a cozy 24th Street cocktail bar, a warm, celebratory vibe
Fat Cat & The Mantis
a great-vibes Mission wine bar, a good wine list
Dahlia SF
a dated façade hiding a magnificent interior, pro-level cocktails
Las Margaritas Bar
a friendly 24th Street bar, impeccable margaritas
Arcana
a spacious two-floor natural wine bar, revolving art on concrete walls
Laszlo
attached to Foreign Cinema, DJs and movie screenings
Pop's Bar
a renovated wooden Mission bar, Prohibition-themed memorabilia
20 Spot
in a former record store on 20th, an extensive wine list and local brews
Evil Eye
antique-punk decor, no TVs, but a pool table
Etcetera Wine Bar
wine flights — red, white, orange, French-style pizza
The Beehive
retro-glam Valencia lounge from the Treasury team, a signature frozen slushy cocktail
Asiento
a semi-hidden Mission tapas bar, live jazz and DJ sets
The Homestead
free peanuts on every table, tin ceilings
ABV
serious cocktails with serious food, open kitchen
The Willows
pinball machines on loan from Pacific Pinball Museum, Polynesian-themed tater tots
Big Finish Wine Tavern
48 wines on tap (most under $14/glass), menu categorized as 'crisp finish' / 'big finish' / 'juicy finish'
Lone Palm
candlelight, white tablecloths, Miami Vice-style neon signage, blocks from Dolores Park
The Lab
experimental synthesizer artists, free jazz / world music mashups
Royal Cuckoo Organ Lounge
a working Hammond B3 organ in the corner with live organist most nights, tiny, dimly lit, no TVs, no phones-out vibe
The Hideout (at Dalva)
hidden behind a door in the back of Dalva bar — door is only unlocked Thursday through Saturday, front bar (Dalva) has a desert-inspired aesthetic; the back room is textbook speakeasy
Shotwell's
the corner of Shotwell and 20th has been a bar since 1891 (originally Schlichtmann & Bredhofy Grocery Saloon), current building dates from 1906 — bullet holes from long-forgotten scuffles are still in the walls
Hi Hat
opened mid-2025 in the former Pi Bar space (Valencia & 25th), bike-wheel-sized NY-style pies with bubbly puffy crusts
Casanova Lounge
naughty velvet paintings of nude women lining the walls (the namesake), horseshoe bar and vintage pendant lights
Wildhawk
from the Bon Vivants (Trick Dog) team — Scott Baird and Josh Harris, unassuming exterior, impeccably designed interior
Latin American Club
cocktails are famously oversized — you order one, you don't need a second, piñatas hanging from the ceiling year-round
SoMa
Wine Down SF
a comfortable SoMa wine bar, wine, beer, and American bar bites
The St. Regis Bar
the stylish ground-floor bar at the St. Regis, luxe, hushed hotel-lounge setting
Press Club
a sleek, cellar-style wine bar, a long list of hard-to-find wines
Lava Restaurant & Lounge
a slick SoMa bar-lounge, a vast Japanese whisky list
Saison Cellar & Wine Bar
the wine bar from the Saison team, a legendary mulled wine + grilled cheese
Executive Order Bar & Lounge
vintage-accented modern lounge, a pool table and books on the walls
Tequila Mockingbird
highbrow tequila and mezcal cocktails, craft beer too
Natoma Cabana
a plant-filled tropical hideaway, tiki drinks made with care
Driftwood
a nautical-themed SoMa cocktail bar, a beautiful hand-crafted bar and a piano
Azúcar Lounge
dim, sofa-strewn SoMa lounge, an excellent tequila selection
Monarch
Latevintage cocktail bar upstairs, dance club downstairs, DJs and the occasional trapeze act over the bar
Alchemist Bar & Lounge
steampunk decor, housemade cocktail ingredients
Bar Malone's
named after Cheers' Sam Malone, horseshoe bar kept from District, relacquered with brass trim
Marianne's
hidden behind bookcase in The Cavalier, vintage rock'n'roll vibes inspired by Marianne Faithfull
North Beach
Legacy North Beach Bar
a newer Grant Avenue cocktail bar, turntables and welcoming bartenders
Paris 75
a little slice of France on Broadway, wine flights, beer, cheese & charcuterie
Vesuvio Cafe
Beat Generation legend since 1948, stained glass windows
15 Romolo
down a hidden alley off Broadway, former speakeasy and brothel space
Tosca Cafe
red booths, opera on the jukebox
Tony Nik's Cafe
opened 1933, the day Prohibition ended — three generations of the Nicco family, tiny North Beach lounge — leather banquettes, mirrored back bar, no TVs
Monroe
LateBattle of the Decades Fridays — music starts in the 50s at 5pm, advances a decade each hour, drinks start at $1 and climb hourly with the decades
Petit Lil's
French-leaning late-night bar with steak frites, tinned fish, and oysters, preview of the forthcoming Lillie Coit's in North Beach
Long Weekend
Future Bars concept that rotates theme every 9 months — currently 'Long Weekend Havana', Cuban-themed cocktails in a 1923 Italian American Bank building (birthplace of the Pisco Punch)
Equal Parts
opened December 2025 in the Old Spaghetti Factory landmark (1908 building), California-Mexican cocktails — agave spirits and housemade infusions
Bodega
big 'wet your lips' neon sign and burrata on every table, wines organized as 'Rich & Thicc', 'Flirtatious', and 'We Get It Susan, You Like Dry Rosé'
The Devil's Acre
LateFuture Bars group — apothecary-style bar paying tribute to the Barbary Coast era, cocktails made with extinct and revived ingredients
Tenderloin
The Mortimer
a modern lounge in the elegant Hotel Adagio, shareable punch bowls
Secret Bar at Son & Garden
a hidden speakeasy inside Son & Garden, an opulent flowers-and-velvet room
Swig
Latea lounge with a tiny dance floor, a fireplace
Black Cat Jazz Supper Club
two-level jazz supper club, live jazz most nights
Bourbon & Branch
password-entry speakeasy, 90-minute time limit
Wilson & Wilson
detective agency theme inside Bourbon & Branch, Scotch flights
The Library
walk-in side of Bourbon & Branch, password is 'books'
Valley Club
beautifully lit second-floor hidey-hole, where 'furtive making out is tacitly accepted'
The Geary Club
no signage out front, second-smallest bar in SF
Rye
recessed below street level — easy to walk past the door entirely, dim, leather, low ceilings — the platonic Tenderloin cocktail-bar setting
Castro
Millay Sake + Wine Bar
a cozy, unpretentious sake & wine bar, Japanese-fusion snacks
Blush! Wine Bar
wines from around the world, European tapas and French dishes
Blackbird
rustic-modern Castro lounge, a pool table in back
Last Rites
jungle plane crash theme, airplane fuselage seating
Churchill
WWII-inspired space, long beer list
Cafe du Nord
below-street former speakeasy, indie music venue
Polk Gulch
Ora Wine Bar
a friendly Polk Street wine bar, good easy-drinking wines
BlindPig Speakeasy Lounge
a password-required speakeasy, TLC cocktails (and ~$18 prices)
Hyde Out
a warm neighborhood dive (cash only), a well-stocked bar + a jukebox
El Lopo
Spanish wine, sherry and vermouth, Asturian cider poured from on high
Lush Lounge
exposed brick and a fireplace, a driftwood bar with Tarantino flair
Hi-Lo Club
industrial-chic Polk lounge, a small, inventive cocktail list
Upcider
18 ciders on draft plus global bottles, a sunny second-floor window perch on Polk
Harper & Rye
bi-level with a pool table, a piano upstairs
Amélie
70+ wines by the glass, biodynamic and low-intervention focus
Union Square
Obscenity Bar
the Hotel Emblem's Beat-themed lobby lounge, a full bar + New American shared plates
Silk Road Bar
a downtown bar boasting 'best bartender in SF', high-craft, creative cocktails
Elements Bar & Lounge
the fourth-floor bar at One65, high-end cocktails + French bistro bites
The European Bar & Lounge
a sleek, upscale downtown lounge, handcrafted cocktails + New American small plates
Lost Cat Bar & Bites
a cute, cozy cat-themed bar, low-key, post-show-friendly
Hawthorn SF
Latechandeliers and gold-accented lounge, a serious sound system
Starlite
glamorous lounge in the Beacon Grand, all-vinyl DJ sets
Last Drop Tavern
old-world English tavern, all brick, cocktails themed on Tales of the City
The Felix
entrance through a framed photo door downstairs, neon red lights, big yellow booths
Tunnel Top
literally built atop the Stockton Street tunnel entrance, two-level — upstairs lounge with windows overlooking Bush
Owl Tree
the legendary OWL theme — there are literal owls everywhere, owl mosaic on the wall outside, dark wood, red carpet, black leather booths
Harlan Records
tucked down a Union Square alley, intimate dim digs designed in the Japanese kissa tradition
Financial District
The Treasury
a posh FiDi cocktail lounge, a dramatic interior
Dawn Club
live jazz in an art-deco room, a gold-and-blue color scheme at night
The Irish Bank
tucked into its own alley, secluded alley patio
RM 212
max capacity ~15 — genuine speakeasy scale, not a gimmick, cocktail program by Patrick — ask for his off-menu favorite
Outer Sunset
White Cap
surfer-cool Outer Sunset cocktail bar, craft cocktails, beer, and slushies
The Riptide
since 1941, fireplace
Lost & Found
SF-themed cocktails (Mission Dolores Margarita, etc.), excellent fried tom yum wings
Inner Richmond
Would You Believe
a family-owned Richmond neighborhood bar, comfy booths + a pool table and jukebox
The Hearth
15 drafts including German beers, 8-ball pool
High Treason
by two ex-Michelin sommeliers (Ame, French Laundry, Benu, Bar Tartine), 40+ wines by the glass spanning Napa to Croatia
Cantina Los Mayas
SF's first Mexican wine bar (yes, that's a thing — Baja Valle de Guadalupe is producing serious wine), exclusively Mexican wine list
540 Club
Clement Street neighborhood dive that locals are quietly protective of, low-key, no-pretense
Haight-Ashbury
Magnolia Brewing (Haight)
Haight brewpub with a long house-beer list, organic bar food and smashburgers
Club Deluxe
SF's best neighborhood jazz bar since 1989, blondewood 1950s look
The Alembic
Haight's serious cocktail bar — opened 2006, helped reset Upper Haight's reputation, long copper bar, tin ceiling
The Green Heron
LateHaight-Ashbury neighborhood cocktail bar in the former Hobson's Choice space, Monday trivia + Thursday bingo, 7:30-9:30pm
O'Reilly's Irish Pub
opened 2024 in the former Milk Bar comedy space, live music, comedy, and trivia seven nights a week
Hayes Valley
Brass Tacks
wines on tap and craft cocktails, snazzy light fixtures
Smuggler's Cove
three-story pirate ship interior, 1,300+ rum varieties (largest in US)
Mr Tipple's Recording Studio
nightly live jazz, Prohibition-style cocktails
Hôtel Biron
tucked-away alley location for 24+ years, candlelit intimate wine bar
Birba
charming back patio, great snacks
Hotel Biron
tucked down Rose alley off Market — easy to miss entirely, not a hotel — just shares the name with the Paris hotel where Rilke lived
Bernal Heights
Holy Water
church-themed decor and religiously-named cocktails, a thoughtful tap list and glassware
Wild Side West
SF's last remaining lesbian bar (founded 1962), named after the 1962 film Walk on the Wild Side starring Barbara Stanwyck
Rock Bar
dive-bar warmth meets cocktail-bar craft, the kind of place where regulars introduce themselves
VinoRosso
specializes in unique Italian varietals you won't see elsewhere, by-the-glass program is the centerpiece
Lower Nob Hill
Stookey's Blue Room
an intimate live-music bar, live performances with no cover
Stookey's Club Moderne
a 1930s art-deco room, vintage craft cocktails
Peacekeeper
a bright, bi-level Lower Nob Hill bar, a retractable roof
Left Door
unmarked door next to Bus Stop sports bar, velvet chairs
Persona
underground basement bar — descend a staircase under a neon Persona sign, inspired by SF's erotic cinema culture of the 1960s–70s: dark textures, metallic accents, neon
NoPa
Mini Bar SF
an intimate Divisadero lounge, contemporary art on the walls
Scarlet Fox
LGBTQ- and women-owned wine bar on Hayes St, 60–70% of stock made or owned by women
Horsefeather
mid-century styled cocktail bar on Divisadero, plant-strung covered patio and parklet
Bar 821
dimly lit, welcoming, and low-key, unusually good spirits selection for a NoPa neighborhood bar
Fool's Errand
NoPa's requisite first date bar — snug cabin feel and a Riesling obsession, sits on what is reportedly the world's first parklet
Inner Sunset
The Red Tail Beer & Wine Bar
a chill Inner Sunset beer & wine bar, a rotating beer and wine list
Fireside Bar
a cozy fireplace and overstuffed sofas, an outstanding beer selection
The Little Shamrock
second-oldest bar in SF, lowest prices in the city
Temple Bar SF
renovated spacious pub, gorgeous bar centerpiece
Linden Room
concealed behind Fiorella's Inner Sunset rooftop dining room, intimate cocktail bar
Caché
opened March 2025 by chefs who met at two-Michelin-star La Grande Maison de Bernard Magrez, sea bream sashimi for two is the signature
The Sage & Drifter
named after Johnny Cash's 'I'm A Drifter' and Taoism's concept of the sage, opened 2021 by three Hockey Haven veterans
Lower Haight
Woods Lowside
a Lower Haight Woods taproom, house beers brewed with yerba mate
Stoa
a cocktail bar with a serious kitchen, off-the-charts small plates
Bar Jabroni
'a restaurant disguised as a bar' — inventive seasonal small plates from chef Robert Hernandez, deep natural wine list with rare Coteaux Champenois
Russian Hill
Woods Polk Station
a tiny Polk Street Woods tavern, house beers with yerba mate + flights
Bar Iris
hotel-lounge meets mid-century living room, Japanese-inspired cocktails
Royal Oak
Polk Gulch institution — Victorian-meets-fern-bar interior, frozen in 1979, hanging ferns everywhere, red velvet everywhere, brass everywhere
Chez Brando
tiny French wine bar where the owner tours every table through the menu personally, chalk-covered walls and ceiling — you can write on them
Chinatown
Marina
California Wine Merchant
a wine bar inside a retail wine shop, floor-to-ceiling bottle racks
For The Record
70s-inspired lounge with vinyl records and disco balls, 10 stools, 9 tables — deliberately small and intimate
Rick and Roxy's
two bars in one: Rick's (laid-back, Monopoly Deal/Cards Against Humanity/skee ball/darts/Connect Four) and Roxy's (disco balls/checkerboard dance floor/neon), 70s-inspired without being campy
Indigo
opened 2025 — owner-operated by Susie and Kash who work the floor, famous Kash Smash Burger (American wagyu)
Lobalita
opened March 17, 2026 — from the team behind Bar Darling, April Jean, Harper & Rye, and Peacekeeper, name derived from Latin for 'she-wolf' — symbolizing feminine strength
Outer Richmond
Goemon Izakaya Bar & Karaoke Lounge
Latea newer Clement Street izakaya bar, creative drinks + late-night bites
The Nag's Head
a tiny, cute Outer Richmond dive, a sweet bartender who'll hand you a puzzle
Rampant Bottle & Bar
natural wine bar and bottle shop run by owners Jack and Charlie who pour and explain everything, hot dog-shaped lamps and big people-watching windows
Violet's
sister restaurant to Fiorella — elevated bar food including duck liver mousse and shrimp louie rolls, long curved bar ideal for solo drinking
Jackson Square
Grasslands
a small Chinatown-edge bar, a great whiskey selection
Comstock Saloon
restored Victorian saloon, live piano some nights
Verjus
candle-lit wine bar, fantastic French food
High Horse
former horse stable — original building survived 1906 earthquake, directly across from the Transamerica Pyramid
Barbarossa Lounge
Latein one of SF's oldest surviving buildings — served as a jailhouse in the 1800s, survived 1906 earthquake, cocktails named after Barbary Coast criminals, madams, and politicians
San Francisco Wine Society
wine country comfort in the Financial District, bocce ball court on premises
Mid-Market
Dogpatch
Nob Hill
Bayview
Fillmore
Duboce Triangle
Pacific Heights
Potrero Hill
West Portal
Yerba Buena
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